It is a test. Not as functional as potty training or as complex as matching shapes and colors but a test just the same. And so you sit doubled over in a position that defies bones with smudgy fingers working carefully face screwed with concentration and an occasional, focused and exasperated huff. The blue cannot […]

This is a big day…for those of us who grew up in shadows, hiding our desires and feeling like criminals for acting on them.  The shame of desire, the social orphan pariah…to have come out of the shadows, into the light of recognition and to have come even this far with the rulings on DOMA […]